Another Semester

This semester started and its busier then ever. I have 3 300 level classes and a 400. which means a lot of work. good news is i started talking o the Resident life director and soon should be able to get a position doing that(more work yay:() this will then allow me to eventually become a hall director, then i get free school and room etc. I'm still preparing for my case in April but my baby's mother has mellowed out allot, she's even giving me extra time on Monday! .....I'm pretty sure that her lawyer had a talk with her..... what ever happened i don't care as long as i get to see my baby boy I'm happy. I'm also getting him to the doctor finally for tubes in his ears. basically life's starting to go good, I'm well on my way to my degree and finally at a place in life i feel happy....any one got anything they need answered? feels like i got god on my side, and i could fix anything.

went to court

So my baby's mother wanted to move, about 5 hours away, i got an injunction. She wanted it lifted so she could go to school. Well after i built my case (saved text messages voice mails) i had a good case. my lawyer put her on the stand and then proceeded to tear her apart, over and over and over again. catching her in ever lie she said and every flaw she had, it was great! It ended with me not even having to testify the judge stopped my lawyer mid sentence and said I'm ready to rule when you stop. my lawyer sat down immediately, and the judge ruled that if she leaves the state then i get my son permanently and she will get visitation! my lawyer went on to tell me that i would more then likely end up with full custody. I'm so happy.....


TIPS WHEN BUILDING A CASE
When you receive a text message e-mail it to yourself immediately keep ones that are particularly incriminating so you can prove those were sent beyond a shadow of a doubt, but a good lawyer and argue and usually get them to admit to sending the texts

Save voice mails, you never know when something she said will conflict with a voicemail, then that will work to your advantage.

send your own texts messages to your e-mail as well, its an extra step and its annoying but then you can prove what you said showing that you didn't deserve it, or she wasn't simply retaliating to something you said.

ill add more later....

The long stay

Well with the long stay here my son has learned how to kiss how to hug how to talk (about 20 new words) he also has gotten a lot better hes long annoying diaper rash is all cleared up, he is eating a lot now (enjoying pizza 3 whole pieces!) hes got plenty of fluids and also he is actively running around the house playing and laughing. He hasn't gotten his cough cleared up yet or his runny nose, but i suspect that he needs tubes in his ears and then it will all clear up. there hasn't been much going on from his mother, accept for the call on new years asking to speak to him , b/c she wanted to tell him that she still loved him ....i allowed it and he said hi (also taught him to use a phone well at least how to hold it) he hung up on her and then she didn't call back. I'm making loving every second of this, my son is my life, i don't need to go out and party when i have a bundle of joy ready to play everyday.